hey - just because I am giving up on C does not mean that I am leaving the BB - may not post as much but I am lurking.
Howevewr, I did just have a good phone convo w/ C - cleared the air some and I feel a start to a friendship. Altho I did get the feeling from her that the idea of me going away for the weekend with someone else hurt her some. Altho I did not tell her that to hurt her - I suggested to her that we make a pack that whenever she says anything that hurts my feelings I will tell her right away and she will do the same if I say anything that hurts her feelings. That way the little hurt will not be like a forgotten splinter and start to fester.
I am going over to see her toinght to pick up one of my tools and we will talk more then. Wish me luck - may not be able to get the marriage back but want to save a friendship.
