Dusty, good luck with things. I know we're on parallel trains at this point, so I can't give you much advice on what the future may bring.
I think you handled things with W fairly well. I'm glad you stood up for yourself and said you will not lie to the kids. Good for you!
If I were you, I wouldn't get my hopes up too much about the argument being some kind of turning point. But as they say, it ain't over till it's over.
Holding, hopefully our parallel trains don't go off the bridge! I'm not getting my hopes up regarding the argument but some small things happened the day's after that were positive, baby steps!! As for the kids talk that will happen tomorrow I am getting prepared for whatever comes at me, like I've said I will not side with her for the protection of our children, she can continue to live her lying life as it currently is right now, she has zero consequence for what she is doing including her mom and sister. They have no idea what she is really doing. Hopefully that rears it's very ugly head tomorrow, if not, it will come out, my kids are smart and they will figure it out. We have had divorce around us both family and friends and everyone of them was because of infidelity, so that is what they equate with divorce! Thank god I have a clean conscious!
