WAS wanting to move across the world - help

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OK, so after the day and seeing how hard the kids took it and also looking at the financials, I told her that it wouldn't make sense logistically or financially for her to move the kids and herself in 30 days and we quite simply can't afford it.
I told her that if she stays here for the school year, I can rent a condo and give her her space.
She cried and wouldn't agree.

I asked for a pause and told her that we should discuss it in our couples therapy session instead of arguing about it with no reasonable chance of either of us agreeing.