I hear you guys ... do you not think to him it looks like I'm letting go??
I don't call or text. If he texts about kids I respond. He got packages delivered I didnt bother sending him a text they were here. He comes in the house doesn't acknowledge me only asks a question about the baby I answer and say nothing more. No goodnight etc. I don't ask about his day where he is who he's with why he's coming in here at 10pm etc etc. that's a big change from what it had been.
I know I still have A lot To do and my words here and my feelings I know I haven't dropped the rope but posting here saves me from doing things IRL...
Short of making a schedule and getting the ball rolling on legal aspects in regard to H I don't think there's much more behavior I can change from an outside perspective. Now it's what's in my head I really have to work on.
