I've read all the threads trying to get answers for my sitch. Initially I made the mistake of trying to pursue her, because I knew she wanted my attention. But apparently she doesn't want that anymore. So after discovering DB'ing, I stepped back. And that drew her to me. But also knew that one of my 180s would be being more attentive to her and pursuing more. So I give her attention when I can, but not too much. To be honest women like attention, but if you give them too much attention that lose interest. There has to be something for them to chase. Which is why my W is pursuing OM who has put zero effort with her.
