Wife wants to leave marriage 3

[Gordie]

Tread and Tobias,

Your w complained that you ignored her so you feel detaching and giving space and time is just another form of ignoring her, so how will that make things better?

I struggled with this same question. I posted a lot. I called a d b coach. There's no easy answer but if you keep at it you will figure it out for your situation.

Read the books. Read the detaching thread. Read the pursuit and distance thread. Listen to the vets like doodler and anotherstander. There's a lot of wisdom for you. Some will apply to you but not all.