Originally Posted By: RBG80
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2738262&page=11
Is this normal? You guys that have moved on, is it normal to be sad (and that's all it is) that a marriage is ending?...


Short answer Yes...

Longer answer, yes... I don't like who she's become, I don't see a path that could/would see us back together. I don't think she could ever work on herself enough for us to work or for us to be happy together moving forward. But I'm still sad that my dreams are coming to an end. I want a D, but I don't want to end that which I imagined to be my future. It's not black or white, it's not right or wrong, but I believe it is the only way.


M - 9 1/2 years
5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA
10/31/16 - We sold house
01/10/18 - D Finalized