I'm now in a new relationship with a wonderful woman who I love and who loves me. Me and the ex-wife have been up and down, she's been twisted and vile, then friendly and kind. I have no idea what her mind is and I understand that it's no longer my business or concern.
I've filed for divorce and am about to move out of the marital home and she'll be taking it over.
What I'm having issues with and would like some advice on is I feel sad with the end of the marriage. I feel sad that we're at this stage and that what I thought was my life is no longer an option.... I always have had an issue where I struggle with letting go of the past (even with the loss of my mother). I have issues being grateful for what I have.
Is this normal? You guys that have moved on, is it normal to be sad (and that's all it is) that a marriage is ending?...
I'm really confused here, I kmow, understand and accept that the marriage is over, but need a steer here ladies and gents.
Thanks
Hello RBG80,
It is easy to be conflicted when you have so many emotions and thoughts going through your head!
Speaking with one of our DB Coaches will help you clarify your goals and help you develop some strategies for dealing with loss.
Feel free to give me a call at 303-444-7004 to discuss how we can best help you determine what to do next.
Cristy
Resource Coordinator The Divorce Busting Center 303-444-7004
A Divorce Busting Coach can help you save your marriage, even when your spouse wants out.
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