or if the "fog" means he doesn't want to look like the villain?
What if he has some (limited) insight & concern about how others might see him, and thus must do image management...
and or has internally justified poor behavior before, so he's moving along that "struggle" much faster, to arrive at the place where YOU gave him NO CHOICE...?
What if what you are interpreting as confusion on his end, is not confusion so much as implementing a plan that requires a bit of social finesse to avoid looking bad in other's sight... Would that change anything?
You're not really hearing his words to you b/c they are too painful. And so unkind, yet he feels the need to repeat them.
You tell yourself to believe nothing they say and only half of what they do..
but sometimes that advice just dulls the pain and slows the reaction time.
'Protect yourself asap. Trust your gut.
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