Also I have question in regards to the sexual behaviors of WW. If this is too personal, then no need to respond. But do WW imagine being with OM when having sex with their H?
I'm gonna share something extremely personal here, but since we're all friends (and usernames are anonymus) I'll do it.
My XW had an extreme case of hemorrhoids. So bad that I had not seen her naked in maybe 5 years when having sex (always lights out). She was terrified of having it removed and would not let me se her naked even though I told her that I'd be ok..
Also she always showered before sex. Always. The last two times we had sex (4 and 5 days before I think she got physical with OM after a party at work) she just got up (without having showered) and sat on me with panties on and just pulled them aside. Very unusual. She was also very concerned of her scent. She asked be on both occasions how she smelled....
Do you see where I'm getting at here? It seems as if she rehearsed with me on how to have sex with OM without him seing her "problem". At least, so I think...
Im conclusion, yes I do believe some of them think about OM when doing you. And yes, thinking back, that make me want to throw up.
M:46 WXW:40 T:20 M:13 D3,D8,D10 BD:11/12/16 D:12/14/16 OM confirmed 01/20/17