You guys aren't going to believe this 5

[Sotto]

Hi Thornton, I'm thrilled to read that update and kudos to you. It's good to hear that you are getting out and about on your bike and really enjoying it too. It is certainly possible to enjoy life in unanticipated ways, even after such painful and difficult things have happened. In fact often I think we appreciate them more - like Spring after Winter...

I think you are wise to respond minimally and neutrally to those texts. For me, the advice in your sitch is somewhat different as you have been round a loop a few times and this pattern of behaviour from her isn't dissimilar to what you have seen before. In truth, I think it would really take some time and willingness to reflect deeply on her part for there to be a fundamental change. Any less, and I think you risk 'looping' again.

I think it is good that she sees and knows that something has changed for you. And in truth I think it has changed and I think you have reached your line in the sand - which is healthy and no bad thing in all circumstances. I'd feel much more concerned if you were melting in light of the contact from her. I think your eyes have opened and you are seeing the situation more deeply and widely - and I think that is the product of growth.

Good for you