I think that there maybe some confusion. W hasn't had a PA with OM since late November, which was a couple of times on a cruise ship. And probably one other time when we were visiting family in town. The two has planned to continue to sneak and see each other. But that is when I quickly caught onto the A. Which was two weeks after it first started. From that point, it has turned into an EA/obsession on my W part.
Right, but she may have met up with him as recently as that business trip a couple of months ago, right? And you think she's still in contact with him. There's really no difference to your sitch between a PA and EA. She's checked out either way, and you are Plan B. I still stand by what I said, at some point you'll get tired of it and truly detach like TXHubby did, and at that point she may snap out of it.