It was me not got giving her enough attention that made her pursue OM. So I shouldn't go full pursuit? I have seriously done 180s. But detaching contradicts me giving my W the attention she craves.
Figured maybe I should just focus on W and not bring up that I know she is having an EA with OM. She becomes more defiant when I bring him up. Not sure if she is being nice now, because she cares about me or does OM just makes her a happier person?
W seemed shocked when I told her to leave, because I felt that she crosses a boundary by still associating with OM. I was fed up at that point. And didn't feel I should tolerate that in my own home.
Before I forget, W has been nice off and on. Throughout this whole ordeal, but things change when OM shows up in the picture. I can see a personality shift that she doesn't see. It's a selfish mentality which bases on her having what she wants regardless who gets hurt because of her actions. And my W get a that way for OM.
