I agree with OwnIt - I don't think his behaviour about his fellow officer is about you, I think it is part of his MLC churn and avoidance. Was his lack of emotion initially unusual for him? Not uncommon for men in tough professions, though. But the bracelet is inconsistent with that.
Me: 53 H:38 T:20 M:14 BD ILYB etc 10/15, H diagnosed severe depression S 1/16 PA 4/16 H filed 1/17