What should I be doing now? (Filing for D soon)

[25yearsmlc]

I agree Blu, I woke up feeling ashamed at how I presented my decision. -

Her only response to me was that she new it was going to happen, but it became real when I said it..

2 questions/comments

I missed out on why she has not filed for the divorce since she's in an A

and I cannot help but wonder if the concept of you filing, gave you a sense of some control.

There's nothing wrong with that! I'm just saying it seems like you got a response, and you wanted one.

I think Blu had a good point about your w's lack of involvement in real time. For all we know, the kid repeated something she heard long ago or that the "former friend" blurted out without thought

neither of which have anything to do with your w, now.

But it triggered something in you, obviously. And that is where you are.

Do you feel like you have to follow through now, and if so, is it b/c of the texting

or b/c it's what you are ready to do?