Tread,

I did everything wrong and came here looking for advice. Two awesome pieces of advice I got here that really helped my situation was to firmly and confidently say:

I will not be in a theee way relationship.

I want to be your H not your friend.

Best wishes.

Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving