I think that there maybe some confusion. W hasn't had a PA with OM since late November, which was a couple of times on a cruise ship. And probably one other time when we were visiting family in town. The two has planned to continue to sneak and see each other. But that is when I quickly caught onto the A. Which was two weeks after it first started. From that point, it has turned into an EA/obsession on my W part.
Now they may have met up on May one time, while she was on business for a day trip. But I no real confirmation on any PA there . So I can't Call this an active PA. Even though she might be reminiscing on the PA part by listening to certain songs on cheating and looking at cruise photos.