I only have a few min, as I am running out the door, but I will be back. I am not shocked that you are ready to file, but I am shocked by your response.
Here is my impression with the little that I know here. While you have been pondering filing soon, this was a knee jerk reaction and perhaps your way of blame shifting? There has been little communication with her and there has been this lull of silence and maybe you were waiting for that last piece of straw to announce "enough is enough!"
The tone of your text from where I sit appears exaggerated and unfair to W. You say "escape your drama" and are somehow blaming her for someone else's behavior. C-nut, she is in a different state. She didn't even know what you were talking about. This was a year ago that her and this friend wronged you, no? So why is your W being blamed for her friends actions today? Then she apologizes and you continue your assault.
I am confused by it all. what did I miss? This feels like the reactive C-nut that started posting here one year ago. I was hoping for you, that when you decided to file for D, you would take a higher road than this. Your D is not about this one lady and someones kid and what they said, or he said, she said. It is bigger than that. This is your M and your life. ... I also thought you were getting to a place where it could be more amicable than this sort of bickering text interaction. The new and improved C-nut doesn't fire off like this anymore, right? .... OK. 2*4 complete. Sorry. Those were my initial thoughts.
I will be back, I am not done with you. :-) Blu
“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela
