Originally Posted By: Rose888

Eh, stuff is stuff. I'm pretty darn attached to the actual kids, just not their hospital wristbands.


I totally get that. If she'd never kept all these things in separate keepsake boxes in her closet (she also threw the boxes away), then it wouldn't really be an issue. The thing is, she was attached to this stuff until fairly recently. Then something changed inside her and she no longer wanted it.

Originally Posted By: Rose888

Do you see evidence of detachment in her interactions with the kids?


TBH, I suppose there hasn't really been a change. But the thing is, she's always had a level of detachment when it comes to the kids. I was always the one tucking them in at night. I would sit with them and read with them. When they woke up crying, it was me who put them back to sleep. Anyway, very soon I guess none of this will matter any more.


Me-47,XW-43
S13,S16
M:18
BD:4-23-17
W filed:7-17-17
(5 months of in-house separation hell)
W moved out:1-6-18
D granted:2-15-18
Decree signed:3-29-18

Your future is out there. Go find it.