Ok, so I've decided not to confront her about meeting the OM on her walks.
I'm feeling down as I don't think I'm getting anywhere with my detaching activities. I've read several threads where people have been able to elicit some positive responses from their S through their GAL and detaching, but I haven't. I'm definitely happy about my GAL and I wouldn't stop them if we got back together, but I want to do them with my W.
I still haven't been served papers, but it's likely to happen any day now.
Married 9, Together 13, Divorce in Progress M: 44, W: 44, S: 7 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/19/17