Thanks for the responses, OwnIT and Rose. I was really disturbed that she was throwing these things out. There were also pictures from baby showers, and a wristband from the hospital. To me it shows a high level of detachment from her own kids, which is really disturbing.
Apparently S10 ended up sleeping with W in the guest bedroom last night. He frequently wakes up in the middle of the night, so he must have gone in there at that point. I think the talk with the kids will be coming soon.
Eh, stuff is stuff. I'm pretty darn attached to the actual kids, just not their hospital wristbands.
Do you see evidence of detachment in her interactions with the kids?
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16
