Hi Treasur, thanks for stopping by I read through some of your story yesterday and your sitch is very similar to mine without the kids obviously. I think the fact that it is so obviously MLC is what is making it so much more painful because reading everything about MLC leaves me with no hope for M for a very long time if at all and that is devastating as you know.
Your comments are spot on and I know I have an amazing support network, I am a very strong independent woman, you can't be an army wife for so many years and not be. I am spinning and yesterday and today are bad, yesterday was probably worse and I said last night that I wasn't going to allow him to define my life in this way but I am and although today is slightly better it's still not great and I have to be for the kids.
I don't know how to detach me and the kids from him without them feeling as though they have to take sides or that Daddy is wrong even though he is?
Me 46 H 39 M 11 T 14 S 10 DO 8 ILYBNILWY 11.06.17 Separate rooms 11.06.17 ILW OW A ongoing 12.06.17 Kicked H out 23.6.17 H came home 20.8.17
