So the latest and greatest from the Harley Quinn files.

HQ left Sunday after a week-long visit. Ended up breaking my cardinal rule about other people meeting my children, but the ex had once again postponed the pickup day for their two-weeks in the summer. HQ's flight came in the day before the kids left, so she got a hotel room and rented a car for the day and came over. Wasn't totally unannounced as I knew. The kids took to her like ducks to water. Just introduced her as a friend. Oh, and they have seen her during our late night facetimes...they'd always manage to get out of bed and jump in my lap before I could shut it down...so they have "met" her so-to-speak.

Anyway, on to the visit. The kids left the next day so that wasn't an issue. HQ stayed with me the rest of the time. She still has friends in the area from back then, so we spent some time catching up and also doing the touristy thing. Took her to a neighboring city and stayed in a B&B on Saturday.

I'd have to say it was one of the best times. Had more fun with her than anyone ever before. And she gets me like none other ever has.

So, now the kicker. As some are aware, HQ and I have had several visits and talk almost nightly. She is now actively searching for jobs and places to live here. Side note, I've been messaged by mutual friends on FB resulting from some of HQs posts (where she talks of moving to my area)...seems like this train is rolling full steam now.

And I'm ok with that.


There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.