You really think he is the kind of guy who will cut off finances to you and his 3 kids, including his newborn baby?
Sorry to be blunt, then you better open up an account, put your some of your joint money in it, and walk, don't run.
I am sorry, I know you want to save this M, but you need to save yourself and your kids first.
I think he did it last time. T, you are entitled to half of what's in the bank (and if I had not had seizures I would have done what I'm saying) so TAKE OUT HALF and maybe some extra for the kids -ask the L about that.
Store up funds.
He's OUT T3 and in my heart of hearts I think you are trying to figure out a way to increase the odds of him waking up and returning.
Honey, I wish I could get you to see 2 things.
1) He's so not worth it, so unreliable;
and
2) IF IF IF he has some awakening it will NOT be b/c you played nice and let him have his cake.
Just the opposite. This is a no brainer to ME, it's merely about timing
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
