There's an OM and a potential OM2 and you can't detach? I think I'd be raining down the h3ll fires of perdition and I'm a nice guy.
This is a quote from my MC/IC, "Listen, this is how marriage works, if one spouse doesn't like the other spouse's friend, then the friend has to go." And, doodler's embellishment to the quote is, "...that goes doubly for freakin' boyfriends."