So yesterday was my first day training for this marathon. Considering that I spent Saturday playing basketball with S13. And then spent Sunday afternoon playing flag football with a bunch of 20 somethings. My legs were in pain by Monday. But yet I still managed to run 5 miles with the group with no issues. So my confidence is pretty good right now and I'll probably sign up for the 5K in two weeks.
Now my plan to detach isn't going exactly as planned. Its hard to do this when W is constantly in your face, joking, being playful and wanting to talk about her day. Yesterday I had planned on watching the second Planet of the Apes with S13 before going out to see the new one tonight. W decided to join in the living room and still was talking about a lot of things as the movie was getting started. I listened and validated, since these were my 180s. But I couldn't help but to thing that this isn't detaching.
Also I find it hard to completely detach when W is specifically making me my favorite meals and being nice. So I find myself doing things for her, which I normally did. But it would just be bad if stopped doing things for her, while she was doing things for me. If it wasn't for her being in an EA with OM. You would think things were normal. I still want her gone. But then there are moments where everything is good, friendly and were having a great time. Before dating we were good friends, so being friendly throughout the MR was never an issue. But then I feel stupid being friendly because I know OM is back in the picture. And why would I be cool with someone leaving her family to fool around with someone else's H?
On another note the parking ticket my W got a few weeks ago was actually given while she was attending a woman's group meeting at the Mayor's Office. Same street where potential OM2 works on, but way on the other side. Due to the time of the meeting and the time she contacted me from her office. I doubt that met up. So even though this guy is trying to get at my W, while pretending to just be a friend. So far no signs of anything happening. So that's at least a good thing. So any advice on this current detaching situation would be much appreciated.
