T, I'm confused about the living arrangements. He moved out, right? To the NEW boss' house? And he's wahwahwahing to you about getting his own place?

I mean, tell him not to show up at the house. Literally SAY: "I don't WANT you here. We don't NEED you here."

You haven't tried to be that blunt yet, have you?

I was thinking you said you're afraid of being bold because he will yank finances. So which one is it? You don't want to stir the pot and pi$s him off? Or the laws are crappy there? Because those are two wildly different things.


M: 40 H: 44
Married 14 years
S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M
2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart
Piecing: April 2014