Another thing, anniversary coming up in 3 days. Decided not to wish her or do anything about it. Do you guys agree? She had clearly stated, that she has no intentions of R during the BD, right after I begged an pleaded and followed her around the house like a puppy.

Her bday in 3 weeks when she will be overseas with her parents, If I don't wish her or call her, her parents may wonder. S9 will be with her as well.

btw S9 has gotten close to me during this period and has been upset about her not being there for him.