I do have a lot of good memories mixed in with the bad from last time. I remember doing a lot of kayaking with the boys and my friends and getting stuck in the rain with a shark swimming by us and feeling like we were on an episode of survivor haha.
his mom has been reaching out to my family a lot and she's in la la land. She doesn't want to acknowledge what he's doing and sends pictures of her paintings and talks about her problems to both my mom and my grandma. My grandma had a talk with her today just saying you know what he's doing. I can't watch him do this to my granddaughter and her boys a second time and talk with you about painting. His mom said her and H don't talk about it that he wants to get his own place and deserves to be happy. My grandma told her he needs guidance from his family, he needs a role model or a shoulder from his family because everyone that talks to him that he's close with is still my family at the end of the day. She said she he needs his mom and have the hard talks with him and not pretend everything is going to be okay
She said she knows she's going to lose her grandchildren in the sense of it won't be like it is now and she's going to lose all her relationships with my family and she was crying but she said she just couldn't stand up to him. She didn't want to risk upsetting him and losing her relationship with him. My grandma said she told his mom maybe his brother or dad could reach out to him. Just to have someone to listen. She said they both knew he left but don't want to get involved.
I told my grandma just to drop it. Just stop talking to her, if she texts be brief. My grandma said she told her the gloves are going to be coming off soon because I'm not going to be how I've been to him. My grandma is old school and doesn't take any nonsense. H mom was then texting my mom about her paintings etc and my mom just gave a short reply. She then started texting my dad about how her and her sister got in a fight and she was really upset and just had been saying a lot of prayers etc.
I don't know what the point of this other than his family is delusional. There is way too much cake eating going on and it's time for things to be how they're going to be... sometimes I feel like I'm being punked. Is this real life??? Haha
I'm so sick of his moods one day he wants to have dinner the next he walks by as if I'm invisible. I did tell him last night I didn't want to be with him.
I feel so stuck. Like I can't change the locks I Can't kick him out. So I tell him not to come he still strolls in at 9pm sits on the couch on his phone all night and there's nothing I can legally do about it until I file for D and we get to an agreement on the possessions house etc. he can not pay for anything and still come here because it's his house too. The law here [censored]. It's a big [censored] sandwich.
