Ok, so those of you that know me probably new that I wouldn't be able to keep my mouth shut... But I decided to speak to the one who needed to be spoken to, not the broken third party person looking for attention... Text went like this:

Me: so apparently your buddy moved up here, and I get ambushed by my friends daughter telling me she says hi, then his wife apologizing because the kids don't know of "the issues" between me and her??? Really, like 10 words were said by text and 1 yr later she brings them up?

Almost 1,000 miles away and I can't escape your drama... I don't have any issues, if she chooses to bring drama then so be it, but I'm fine with things as they are...

Her: I have no idea what you are talking about but I'm sorry if something happened. Assuming you are talking about "friend". If something happened I will talk to her.

Me: what I'm saying is that appear toy friend confessed to my best friend that I don't like her because she is friends with you... Not because of anything else, just because she's friends with you... Apparently I'm such a petty person that just being friends with you will make someone a mortal enemy of mine.. Lol, it's so ridiculous.

You don't need to say anything to "friend" or anyone else on my behalf, this just solidified for me that I've moved on and don't want any part of it anymore... If your in a place that is ok with finalizing divorce, I'll send you the paperwork for your signature. It will only require your signature and a statement in court that the marriage is irreconcilable...


M - 9 1/2 years
5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA
10/31/16 - We sold house
01/10/18 - D Finalized