It's been two months since my w walked away, it feels like it's been two years. It's so hard to believe that this is considered early on in this
If you're in a marathon then two months would be about the first seven steps, LOL! We just can't stress it enough around here, the recovery timeline is extremely long and especially in the first few months all the negative talk she throws at you really means nothing.
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of course everyone outside of this forum is saying how long it's been and if she hasn't come around yet she prob never will.
Read chapter 1 of DR, Michele addresses this. Your friends and family think ripping the band-aid off is the best course of action for for THEM because they don't want to "suffer" having a friend or family member being miserable. If you are choosing to stand for your M then just politely tell them to either support you in your decision or shut the F up. Simple as that
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I do feel like we should be farther along than we are but I can see some very small baby steps forward at times but not much.
It's far too soon. Right now you need to focus on YOU. How's your GAL going?
