Thanks for the comments. My fear with getting a lawyer and blocking her is that she will then hate me with such an intensity that there will never be any chance to reconcile.
Just don't know which way to go!!!!!
Me: 47 Wife: 39 Together: 20 yrs Married: 16 yrs S:9, S:7, D:5, D:1 BD: 7/4/2017 Separation (though living in the same house) 7/20/2017 ?????
