Divorce should be final a week from tomorrow. STBXW is demanding things from me. I'm being called a liar, I'm being treated like I'm screwing her over (I'm not). I'm pretty sure it's just an attempt to manipulate me some more. I can't wait for the legal part to be over.
Boy can I relate! My XW was actually pretty calm and collected right up to the D. Then suddenly she acted like I was trying to rip her off. In the 11th hour she added a bunch of new stipulations to the paperwork that SHE had drawn up, and when I asked for an explanation of where the numbers came from she sent incomprehensible gibberish and went postal when I asked to sit down to go over it. After we finally signed on the dotted line she calmed down again and has never been that way towards me since, so I don't know where that came from. So hang in there, the craziness may just be temporary.
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D called me in tears a few minutes ago (probably why I'm writing this now) saying she missed me and wanted me to come pick her up tonight, which I obviously can't do since it's STBXW's birthday.
At that age they're kind of all over the place. She'll cry to you on the phone and then hang up and 5 minutes later be playing a game with your W. I wouldn't worry about it too much unless she starts acting out in other ways, if she does then consider a C for her. My S would always cry about having to go to his mom's on our handoff days, but then once he was there then everything was fine.
