Tread, I no longer hold the rope... heck, the callouses that it caused have even healed now. also, I think telling other peoples spouses are possibly running around behind their back because they didn't ostracize my wife for doing so, is pretty harsh and detrimental to other marriages.
doodler, I am of the same boat. I only speak of my W when it is in the context of my life, past and present, and I do take pride in my new found ability to not be demeaning about her to others. My only reasoning for thinking about laying it all out was because of the half truths, but I do agree that my silence on the issue will speak louder than me feeling the need to try and defend myself.
M - 9 1/2 years 5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA 10/31/16 - We sold house 01/10/18 - D Finalized
