What a weekend. Saturday morning was at the gym. First set of deadlifts, snap crackle and pop in my back. Laid on the floor for at least 5 minutes. Had to get another guy to basically put me in my truck. Later that day Ws mom asked me to come cut a tree down and cut it up with my chainsaw. I tell her I can barely move.

Fast forward to yesterday morning. I'm laying in bed and I here my door open. I'm telling myself there's no way I can defend myself if this is a burglar. Nope its my W. She has not come over even once unannounced since last October. She said her mom told her I was injured. She got me something to eat and drink and basically just talked for hours. She seemed ok this time but still somewhat depressed. Not sure if our situation is creating some sort of crisis. She announced she is becoming a vegan and she's buying a piano and taking lessons. I don't see anything wrong with that but just more things coming out of left field. It was kind of hard to keep my foot down when I can barely move. It was actually pretty nice talking. I had no energy to argue so it was all very good. The hot and cold thing is getting really old but it was nice having her there caring for me.

Before she left she did say our situation will be resolved soon. I did not ask what that meant. My GAL is almost 75% physical activities so hopefully sitting idle wont sabotage my improvements.


M 1.5 years, her affair was before 1 year
T 7 Years

Wife left October 2016
Affair began August 2016

Me 31 years old
Wife 29 years old