WAS wanting to move across the world - help

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Thanks so much Cadet.

I will go through the list.

The question is though, do I let them go when they are likely to never come back or try to get them to stay (which I think is better for the kids, but my W will be miserable), which will give me time to work on the marriage?

She wants a decision in the next day or so as she wants to tell the kids today.

Thanks,