Hi RysinMn, long time no post!! But good to hear from you and I'm glad to read that you are doing well, despite how things unfolded.
I always think the main thing is to get to a good place within yourself - and then whomever does whatever or decides whatever, it doesn't matter too much. It is kind of you to be willing to lend an ear, should your W need it. If XH contacted me (which he hasn't done for a year or so) I would aim for compassion. The worst thing would be to be mean out of anger and pain, and then something awful happen. We have to be able to live with ourselves at the end of the day.
So maybe not the best news in terms of your sitch, but I am heartened to read your positive tone in any case.
My very best wishes to you!
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
