I wouldn't take the jail and jailor comment seriously. That isn't nothing but wayward talk. My W is walking around here acting like she was never alowed to go anywhere or do anything. I've never told her what she couldn't do. At most I may have advised her on some things for safety reasons, but never have I demanded or told her what to do. If anything I have been told over the years that I have given my W a little too much leeway. That might be the "nice guy" in me. Because like yourself my father ruled the home with an iron fist. And half the stuff my W does wouldn't have been condoned by him. Which he states is part of the reason why I'm having this MR issues now.
