Apparently W made out with one of her childhood friends after some drinks at the bar July 4th last year. I had no clue about this until this A. Years ago, I got drunk and some random woman kissed me and I pulled away. Told W about that. Other than there has never been a connection for any of us to other people.
To be honest, I would have felt a little better if it was just sex. Especially considering OM lives in another state. If it was just physical, then we could work things out. But since there clearly is an emotional connection. Even though W and OM didn't know a thing about each other. And have nothing in common. W seems to be a bit obsessed, which causes her to put up a wall in regards to me.
When I confront her, I expect there to be at least an acknowledgement on how this hurts me. Most of the time, I want to know why OM so important that she willing to risk any relationship with me, S13, friends, co-workers and career over being so call 'friends' with this guy. And that's why I seriously believe this is more than just friendship now.
By the way the moment W began her A. She bought this album from this artist called Bryson Tiller. Basically the concept of this guys album is basically stealing women from their men. W basically played this over and over again when the A first took place. Being smart about hiding the A wasn't really a thing for her at the time. So W comes home from picking her sister up at work this morning. Goes to the bathroom to take a shower and has this blasting on the phone. And singing along to it in the shower. W doesn't have a clue that I know that when she plays this album, I know that she has just talked with OM, writing about OM or at least thinking about this guy while staring at photos of OM.