Hi Sotto , im sitting here with D13 and we are watching Ninja Warrior amd i saw your post. Your friend is right, you talk less about Exh every time you post as well. I dont rhink tje length of rhe M matters but maybe the lack of children does help with NC and in turn aid recovery. You are an example to many with your GAL and positive attitude even when things got tough.
Im not sure newcomers really want to hear there is life after M when they first come on here but regardless its good to know that happiness is there when we are ready. Feeling unworthy is part and parcel when youve been rejected like we were BUT its a feeling and we are all worthy of love. Im now seeing a beautiful , inteeligent , funny lady and im happy. Would i have chosen this path , no BUT im happy , life is good. DB is a process and the best road for any one who finds themselves here is to follow the road map set out here and the wise advice from the vets. Again Sotto , your an example to us all.
