W tries to downplay it saying it was just sex and nothing more. Which I know for a fact is a lie. The intent was just sex, but naturally a desire came along with it. Considering that she allowed this guy to do things that she apparently holds back from me. My guess is that she got turned out and now her nose is wide open. She never brings up OM. I bring it up when I find out they have communicated. As far as I'm concerned the plan is get back on track financially before she tries to run away from her obligations to this family. She claims to have sent a check to the mortgage company already. So I'm going to wait and see what happens with that. And trust that I'm going to keep a very close eye on our joint account.
A problem I'm also trying to understand is if my W cares about me as much as she claims to. Yesterday, I got the speech that she only wants the best for me. And wishes me no ill will. Also she claims to still be in my corner. Today earlier I had done some volunteer work at the school, so she came by and brought me Taco Bell. Then she actually shared food with me. Later this evening, I went to event checking out some local musicians. Came home that W had left me a plate. When it comes to OM, I can't win. But anything outside of him, W still shows signs of caring. She has also noticed I ate smaller portions of food, during my weight loss from working out. And is always insisting that I eat more. Not sure if she just wants to see me eat more or is trying to fatten me up to make undesirable to someone else...LOL
