At this point W is being stubborn and doesn't want to bother. It's going to take a hard life lesson for her to finally get it. Also I'm almost certain that there is a OM2 who is local. A so call friend who announced that he had been interested in her for years. But Didn't say anything until she mentioned possibly divorcing me. This guy like the OM1 has a W and 3 kids also. W would catch up with this guy once every 5 months before. Now they text and call several times a month. W claims that he is just calling to check on her during this troubled time period for her...smh. But I know this guy is in her ear pushing for the divorce. I don't have proof that an A is happening with this other guy. But my gut says she maybe keeping around for attention at least.