Do you find that MLC folks lie about silly small things as well as big ones? Why? Asking because my lawyer wants me to take a court route in our divorce because she believes my STBXH has just lied about too much to work with sensibly. And I think - when he recently tried to get me to talk to him last week - he told me a lie about being in Paris. Because of that, I had told my lawyer he would not meet a deadline for some docs - and now I look like an idiot. A stupid lie too because I've just received a tracked parcel sent yesterday from the city where OW lives, a pretty circuitous route from London to Paris!

I've just sent him a brief email inviting him to be honest and saying if I don't hear from him in 24 hours, I'll give my lawyer the OK to go that route which will be much more costly and take 6-18 months which isn't good for me either. Sigh. They don't make it easy do they even when they are apparently getting the divorce they say they want? Nuts followed by more nuts.


Me: 53 H:38
T:20 M:14
BD ILYB etc 10/15, H diagnosed severe depression
S 1/16
PA 4/16
H filed 1/17