I am so happy to read that you and your daughter went to Spain and had a good time. You both needed a break from the MLC madness.
As for your h, he's smoldering over the fact that you and your daughter are moving on and having some fun. Keep in mind, he's not the happiest camper in the camp ground at the moment. The comment about the money was a direct hit at the fact that your daughter is having fun and poor baby isn't. He's a bit resentful at the moment over this, so ignore his little snippets.
As for moving and not telling you where he's moved to, many of them do this, but eventually they may tell you where they are living...listen to what he says and don't interrupt him. They do like to brag from time to time.
I'm glad you finally started making your place your own. I think you will feel far better when your place is "stamped" with Coly all over it.
Hang in there! I think you've come a long way and are doing great.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
