I have been calling bs on the whole were just friends now from the start. Which has only been getting W upset that I just won't take her her word for it. And I've been saying the same to her that she would chose to be friends with a stranger over her H that she has been with for 17 years. Which is why I believe there is more than a physical connection here. Her intent originally was for things to just be physical, but my W is way to emotional of person for things to be like that. She played herself and caught feelings for a man till this day, she hardly knows anything about.
I confronted her about the account early today. W says that she opened up the account in order to get a loan to help cover the mortgage that we had gotten behind on. The story seems to add up so far. So far there have been no signs of her hiding money.
Last week, I told her that we needed to come up with a plan to get her out of here. Don't think she expected me to say that. But I let her know that I had no intent on chasing after a woman who was chasing someone else's H. At the moment, she doesn't seem too concerned about losing anything. She wants me to keep the home. But that just might mean that she no longer wants the responsibility of home ownership anymore. Or it might mean that she wants the house to be around in case she does try to get back with me at a later time as a plan B I suppose. W did mention a few months back that if we were mean't to be together, then we would somehow find our way back to each other...smh
At this point, I have detached the best I could while living in the same home. At this point, I can't control another grown person so be it. As far as boundaries, I can't do a thing to enforce them. Other than just allowing myself to move on from W. Which I have decided to do.
