Coly I'm so glad you checked back in. I have been hoping things are going well for you. Sounds like they could be better, but to try to find some positive in this, at least he is speaking up and not just being a timid little mouse scurrying along. Congrats to you for not rolling out the red carpet for him again. I still think he's going to come around. I think you are like 6 mos to a year behind skm. I still see so much in common with your guys and hers is definitely coming to the fore.