Is there a hurry to take WW back? I think she has a lot of work to do before she can even ask to come back.
So which one to pursue for your future. First, drop thinking your WW is anything but another woman, not your W. She has betrayed you many times and no longer has that title.
Can you forgive her? If you want a healthy R with her you will have to forgive and not pull the past out when you have arguments and such.
Me:49 W:45 M:19 T:22 EA confirmed and ended 8/2014 S:19,17 D:9,5