Thanks guys! I have not posted a lot of stuff she says bc it makes me look like a joke. Tired of being a joke! She's scared I'm going to hurt her OM. She's 100 lbs and he's probably 220 and I'm more scared of her. Man I'm pathetic lol
I was really trying to strike a balance since I was a real distant husband. I know I was but heck my W probably had me thinking I was way worse. I totally agree with you. Out of options. Time to let go of it all. I did for awhile, probably a good month or so and she would say things like "are you mad at me?". And of course I get sucked in again.
I'm not surprised at her behavior but when I have to hear "OM is going to find out" makes me want to blow something up. If I can just not get sucked in this crap I will be just fine. I'm not a very aggressive person in a relationships but my foot will have to finally come down. Just when I think I think the road is clear, I get a blowout and land in the ditch.
M 1.5 years, her affair was before 1 year T 7 Years
