I hate to do it but.... with the link Christy sent me from MWD on how to talk to the kids when one parent wants the divorce and other posts I have read I am prepared to talk to them. It will kill me to look at there faces when this happens, like you said that your youngest son will be crushed, I think all my kids especially my D11 will be devastated. I hate that innocent children are now collateral damage because my WW thinks she can make a better life for herself. I also feel that once they know I can really 180/LRT and detach, this has been hard from me while keeping our sitch from the kids.
Hello holding,
Michele has an excellent article regarding telling the children. Please email me directly and I will be happy to send it to you.
SmokeyD- I know you already told the kids, but I'm happy to send it to you as well, just email me.
Cristy
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