Re OW...the sad truth is, you know the sad truth. Enough of it anyhow.
as for the rest, I believe some of a previous post bears repeating...
I'm acutely aware of how you feel in terms of being replaced, let alone so fast. It wounds deeply and it draws blood.
It's not real on his end, but it hurts a LOT now. You believe You are the obstacle to HIS happiness? You believe you must be removed so HE can be happy NOW??
If you believe that ^^, if you believe that you "made" him miserable enough for long enough so he HAD to lie and be with other women (inappropriately at best)
and he HAD to buy shiny new pricey objects, and lie about them, and collude with others about how miserable he is, so he can get their "buy in" to leave and still feel like a good guy,
when the truth is that he's become a selfish fraud,
then slap yourself in the face and say "That's not the truth!" Because it ain't.
You are gas lighting yourself.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
